Focus on what you want to do, not what you want to be—the pressure to define yourself by a role is harmful, and fulfillment comes from following what you enjoy doing moment to moment.
Kaplan advises young people to stop obsessing over what career identity they 'want to be' and instead pay attention to what activities actually bring them fulfillment when no one is watching, drawing on his own painful journey from failed writer to game designer.
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Jeff Kaplan: Focus on what you wanna do, not what you wanna be. The pressure that society kind of puts on us is, you know, 'Oh, do you wanna be an astronaut? Do you wanna be a firefighter? Do you wanna be a writer? Do you wanna be a game maker?' And I think we get lost in the trappings of, like a vision of what that role is... When you go home, how do you spend your time? Like, what makes you happy? What brings you fulfillment? And through those paths, you're gonna find out what you're gonna become, not what you wanna be.
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