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Why a sabbatical can change everything

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A sabbatical should be long enough and contain the right components in the right order: setting, ingredients, and order are the three guiding principles.

DJ DiDonna introduces three guiding principles for a sabbatical: sufficient duration with disconnection, embodiment and play, and the right order of activities.

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DJ DiDonna: Your sabbatical should be long enough, it must contain the right components, and these pieces must be in the right order. These are the three guiding principles—setting, ingredients, and order. This is a scaffolding to frame the journey in front of you, not be a 'do this, don't do that' checklist.

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Set impenetrable boundaries to truly disconnect during a sabbatical; even small consulting gigs disrupt the psychological break.

DJ DiDonna advises cutting all work ties during a sabbatical, including small consulting gigs, because they expand to fill the time and prevent true disconnection.

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DJ DiDonna: I'm a purist when it comes to not working while on sabbatical, particularly when it comes in the form of consulting gigs related to your routine job. No matter how attractive the opportunity seems—no matter how little time it claims to take up—these projects tend to expand to fill the time available. A two-hour call once per week has a surprising amount of disruptive force, preventing spontaneity, requiring connectivity, and psychologically tying you to a past version of yourself.

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Claim

Significant time away from your day-to-day is necessary for the mental, physical, or emotional shift that will reveal what's next.

Lenny argues that extended time off is essential for the kind of personal shift that leads to meaningful change.

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Lenny: Life makes it hard to get off the default path and back onto a road of your own design. Sometimes that looks like leaving your job, like I did. Other times, it means reconnecting to why you're doing the work you're already doing. Either way, in my experience and that of many friends, significant time away from your day-to-day is necessary for the mental, physical, or emotional shift that will reveal what's next.

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Definition

The Achiever archetype views a sabbatical as an opportunity to get things done and risks missing the real magic of serendipity and play.

DJ DiDonna describes the Achiever archetype, who treats sabbatical like a productivity project and often regrets not leaving room for unstructured play.

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DJ DiDonna: Achievers view their sabbatical first and foremost as an opportunity to get things done. Achievers are easy to recognize. They're looking to make up for lost time by trying to squeeze years of life goals into a few months. They're primed to view their sabbatical from the perspective of what they got done instead of how it made them feel. Don't judge—most people initially conceive their sabbatical this way. Because we so rarely have freedom over large swaths of our life, it can be hard not to think about a sabbatical as a prime opportunity for productivity on the personal front.

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The Seeker uses a sabbatical to answer deep questions about identity and purpose, but risks disappointment from unrealistic expectations and the quest for perfection.

DJ DiDonna explains the Seeker archetype, who treats sabbatical as a personal archaeological dig, and advises them to restrict their seeking time and prioritize others.

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DJ DiDonna: Seekers are like personal archaeologists. They're likely to engage in activities they used to love, trying to pick up on the scent of joy and engagement from the past. The external journey is a metaphor for the seeker's ongoing internal search. They are deeply engaged in identity work, sensemaking on a path from uncertainty to certainty. A sabbatical beckons them to answer questions that have been bubbling up about the world and how they relate to it.

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The sweet spot for sabbaticals is between six and twelve months, and anything under two months is too short to achieve transformation.

DJ DiDonna recommends six to twelve months for a sabbatical, noting that it takes six to eight weeks just to begin disconnecting.

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DJ DiDonna: I believe the sweet spot for sabbaticals is between six and 12 months. It's not easy to take such a big chunk of time off, which is why most people take an abbreviated break of a month or six weeks, kicking the can down the road for a longer break when things open up in the future. While you'll still undoubtedly get some benefits from an extended vacation, which we'll discuss further in chapter 11, don't mistake a shorter break for a sabbatical. Not taking enough time off puts you at risk of ending up just short of the sought-after experience. It often takes six to eight weeks to begin to feel like you're truly disconnected from routine life.

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