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I never had a career plan and felt broken about it, because conventional advice (like Sheryl Sandberg's 'two-year and 20-year plan') assumes careers are a staircase to a chosen destination.
Molly opens by contrasting the received wisdom of long-term career plans (Sheryl Sandberg's two-year and 20-year plans) with her lifelong lack of a plan, and the feeling of being broken that the staircase narrative produced. ✦ AI generated
Molly Graham · Lenny's Newsletter · 2026-08-04 · original ↗
Sheryl Sandberg once told me that everyone should have a two-year plan and a 20-year plan. The first, I could figure out; 20 always looked fuzzy. I've never had a career plan. And I've always felt a little broken because of it. We're taught that careers should look like a set of stairs—you decide where you want to end up and march upward. When you look at many successful people, their careers can often appear like that from the outside. ... At times, it has felt more like a game of chutes and ladders than any kind of stairs.
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